Learn how to IDENTIFY the narcissist

Narcissists Wear Many Different Masks

Identifying Narcissists can lead you out of a relationship where you are meant to be under the control of the narcissist. Watching for red flags and understanding the behavior traits will arm you so that you can be free.

Have you ever had these thoughts or questions?

  • Do you sometimes think to yourself that this person is not the same as when you first met him?
  • Have you ever felt like you can’t do anything right, no matter how hard you try?
  • Does someone you know constantly put you down or make you question yourself?
  • Do you walk around worried about upsetting them because of sudden mood swings?

If you answered yes, you might be dealing with a narcissist.

  • Narcissists are like emotional black holes – they suck the happiness out of you and make everything about them.
  • They need constant attention and admiration, but they’ll never be truly grateful.
  • Their words can be like a roller coaster, showering you with love one minute and tearing you down the next.

Here’s the key thing to remember:

It’s not you, it’s them.

Narcissists have a problem, not you.

Their behavior is about controlling you.

This website will help you:

  • Understand narcissist behavior.
  • Recognize the signs of narcissistic abuse.
  • Learn how to protect yourself from a narcissist.

Remember, you deserve to feel good and have healthy relationships. This website is here to help you take control!

UNMASK the narcissist and take back control!

Faces of a narcissist
Narcissists wear many different masks

Narcissist

Lonely, empty person pretending to be someone they are not. They feed off of others to try to fill their emptiness.

Narcissistic Behavior

Behaviors are many and change from situation to situation and person to person depending on the goals of the narcissist.

Identifying Narcissists

There are some basic traits that almost all narcissists exhibit such as being self centered, takes no responsibility.

Look behind the smiling mask
Narcissists wear two masks

UNMASKING the Narcissist!

Discover what the narcissist is hiding behind the mask they wear

Narcissists all hide behind a mask. The narcissist presents to the public one mask or face that they want you to believe is their true self. They project an image of a happy, confident, caring person.

However, beneath the charming facade, narcissists strategically hide a darker side that they don’t want anyone to know about. Look for red flags!

1. Fragile Self-Esteem:

While projecting an air of confidence, they possess a deep-seated insecurity masked by a constant need for admiration.

2. Manipulation and Exploitation:
Their focus shifts from charm to subtle manipulation, leveraging guilt trips or playing the victim to control others and get what they want.

3. Behind-the-Scenes Envy:

They may appear supportive, but secretly harbor envy and resentment towards anyone perceived as a threat to their perceived superiority.

4. Lack of Empathy:

Their masked care can turn into coldness and indifference when others experience difficulties, often resorting to minimizing or dismissing their emotions.

5. Rage and Hostility:

Their carefully constructed persona cracks under perceived criticism or lack of control, revealing explosive anger and hostility often hidden behind seemingly passive-aggressive behavior.

These are just some common traits, and not all narcissists will exhibit them all in the same way. It’s important to be aware of these red flags but always seek professional guidance for definitive diagnosis and personal situations.

Traits of a Narcissist

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